Now I can say that this day is overlooked because the big companies are run by momma's boys who don't even know how to be fathers themselves.
-OR-
Cause here at I.S., we don't just write the plain ass facts, if we did than we'll be just some Respectable Negroes.
Prepare to laugh, cry, doze off, nod in agreement, yell, smack your daddy because he did that to you, hug your daddy because he did that to you, reminisce, or just smile for the next couple of minutes.
And remember to wish the REAL FATHERS a Happy Fahvaz Day.
Definition of a Father:
"A man that is there to guide you from not making a mistake and point you in the right direction. Hold you down no matter what and love you unconditionally." -Gypsy
"In its simplest definition, I'd say a sperm donor. As in: 'In the case of Quantanesha... You ARE the father.'" – Snugg McNugg
"Guidance and support. I damn sure ain't no pappy. Maury cleared me already." -B. Tate
"Being a dad is patience, sacrifice, and fearlessness: Patience is plainly what it sounds like.....and lots and lots of it." -Q. Busy
"A father is supposed to be a leader, an advisor, a teacher, a counselor, and your number one fan. My dad and I weren't close when I was younger. It wasn't till recently when we almost had a brawl that we realized how much a like we were. I had to tell him how much I needed his support not just financially but emotionally. Now he is always there to listen and his advice is the greatest. I am grateful to have him cause three years ago he might not have been here." -J. Moore
"Guidance and he is supposed to show u how to be a man…well for a son that is. I don't want fathers raising women to be dikes." -Shotta Dru
You wasn't there, didn't make me no never mind:
"Honestly, my uncle was a true dad to me: picking me up from school, spoiling me, disciplining me, and all that. He supports my mother, his sister, through everything. A real father is there through the good, the bad, the ugly, and in between. You can honestly feel their love and understand it. Guidance, Love, and Support. You may not see it but you know they got you no matter what." –Chrissy
"My godfather is my father. He is hip and cool and we have the same b-day. I forgave my father for being a jerk." -Gypsy
"My father was barely there when I was growing up. Enough said. Not like he is helping me now or when I was younger. Still turned out to be a fine young man without him. So fuck him." –Q. Holliday
"But there is mad shit I had to learn from observation. Even how I deal with chicks, I learned on my own. Cause all my mom could teach me was 'use condoms' and 'I ain't raising no grandkids. My grandfather was my father. That's why I never got over his death." –Shotta Dru
I beat my kid's ass. SO WHAT!!!! They my kids:
"I don't think experience is all that counts cuz u have young dads like myself. I think it's whether or not you choose to make the sacrifices necessary to see your children grow to be better off in life. I will say I'm a father and hope my daughter is raised with the right morals instilled in her to make her a better and stronger 'woman.' So for now, I'm Dad because I will make mistakes, but it takes a father to understand. Ya dig!!!" -D. DeLeon
"As a father, nothing makes you happier that watching your kids laugh, but many choose to live for themselves and never experience that." –G.
"Sacrifice: Meaning, sometimes--most of the time--giving up the material things (and time to do them) to ensure that they have the finest things that my wife and I can provide for them. If that means that I'm going to continue wearing these tired ass jeans and polo sneakers a lil' while longer so that they can look correct, so be it." –Q. Busy
Baby Mommas, Daddies, & Deadbeats:
"Me personally, I never understood the deadbeat dad shit, I LOVE watching my kids!!! They are comedy in motion." -W. Jasper
"Fuck that father shit. Can't bust in these bitches these days. They looking' for a come up to trap a nigga. So I'm just going to stack this bread and fuck these hoes.
Til' the day I'm a father, that's all I'm 'bout." –L. Smith
"This might offend some people, but fuck it. There are some trifling ass women out here who can't fathom what a good man and father is. So they cut him loose and do what's easy: Get that man for motherfuckin' child support. These bitches thinking their winning too." –T. Lewis
"I refuse to be a baby's daddy. Who invented that shit?"
"I think child support is misused by the courts and SOME of the people that receive it. You have conniving women who feel that a child support check is a real check and choose not to work. So they start to spend the child's money for their own needs and wants. On the same token, there are daddies out there who use that child support check as the excuse for raising their child.
All-in-all: Those checks are fucking up the parental system in some way, using it as a means for raising kids. It needs to be re-worked and fixed in a way where it's not being misused and the REAL parents don't have to pay out, not even know if the child is receiving it. *fin*" –Q Double
Speaking about baby daddies, somebody has something to say…:
"It means a lot to be a father, doesn't mean shit to be a daddy though. I hate the term 'baby daddy,' that's not me. Daddy is one who is around, a father is the one who brings you up and teaches you right from wrong. The one who educates, not buys his kid a pair of Jordan's every once in a while or a new PS3 game...I'm my child's father and not a bitches 'baby daddy.'
I don't know too many people who do what I do, and that's to be a single father. Shit is the toughest task I have ever taken on. It's important for a child to have both parents. It's hard for a man to try to care and show that soft side like a woman does for a child. Fathers show love, fathers deserve a Fathers Day, cuz I know I do. I had a FATHER growin' up, no DADDY, and I will make sure mine has the same. Niggas don't understand they "emotionally fuck" up their children from the get, trying be a baby daddy. It's sad to say, but I have seen it with both of my nieces, they just had daddies. Shit is lame." -C. Wright
"I wanted to walk just like you/ wanted to talk just like you"
-Jay-Z "Soon You'll Understand:"
"A real father knows that his kids are looking at everything their doing. From how you put your socks on to the way you drink. It's all recorded." -The Homeboy Southside Queens.
"My lil' boy was sitting on the couch watching cartoons, right. I'm just looking at him through the corner of my eye. Just looking. Then he turns and says 'you got a problem Dad, I'm trying watch my shows.' Yeah, I knew was a father at that moment." -D. Harrington
"Picture a kid's world. They're either happy (laughing) or sad (crying). Link that to a parent. Parents ALWAYS know how their kids are feeling." –G.
"Fearlessness, because an effective ever-present father is the #1 man/male in his children's lives. He should be a symbol of righteousness and manhood, standing for what he feels is right at all times. Fearlessness: also meaning never being AFRAID to enforce his unpopular rule and be an adequate guardian and role model, rather than being the child's friend." –Q. Busy
"Black children, just children in general, need fathers not daddies, ya dig! So shout out to all the real fathers, and off with this 'baby daddy' shit. We need to start a new trend: be a father, feel me, and fuck a 'baby daddy.' Middle fingers up to them niggas and a BIG PAT on the back to niggas like me...FATHERS!" –C. Wright
3 comments:
This was as real as it gets right here!!!
Married… divorced… separated… never together… what does any relationship status have to do with a man's parental duty? Once you’re a father, you're always a father. There is no you in the formula of life anymore. There is always at least one other person standing beside you in that equation. Always. Own that. And never leave that behind.
Proud to be a Single Dad
@Jazzie Casas
I appreciate what you said. Makes hella sense out here. But the 20yr turnaround is coming and more guys are handling their business
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